How are you creating your life? Personal Power Mastery – Doug Vermeeren
Doug Vermeeren: You’ve heard the idea that people spend
more time planning their summer vacations than they do planning for their life.
It might sound like a funny idea if it weren’t closer to the truth than most
people realize. The majority of people who even claim to be in charge of their
lives still don’t take time to regularly plan and evaluate their lives. Their
planning is most often sporadic and only spurred on by either outside events
that force them to revaluate or a high inspiring moment that reminds them of
what they are capable of.
If you are going to make powerful strides towards creating the
success you want in your life a careful examination of your life and your activities
in relationship to your goals must be a regular activity.
As I meet, interviewed and spend time with some of the world’s
top achievers I was quite surprised to see that each of them spend much careful
time in meditation, pondering and careful thought about their present and
future. (They didn’t waste a lot of time worrying about the past except to
repeat successes or quickly learn from a mistake) Their time was also not spent
wishing or wondering what they could do. It was actually productive thinking
about why some thing would be important, how they might accomplish it and who
they could reach out to for help.
It is important to point out that many of the gurus today
encourage their supporters to learn to think big. While that is important I
have found that often those who created lives of challenge, poverty and
difficulty often tries to be big thinkers too. Big thinking alone doesn’t do
it. The thinking that follows must be entered around execution and support for
that execution.
One of the thoughts Douglas Vermeeren often share in Personal Power Mastery is the concept you’ve heard
that the road to hell is paved with good intentions. I want to share that room
to heaven is to. The only difference between the people on the two roads is
that those who make it to the better places tend to add execution to the good
intentions.
Over the year I have observed that that there are some
additional steps required to bring what you think about into reality. Here’s
the first consideration:
If you only
think it you probably won’t do it.
If you plan
it you might do it. Or do it for a while.
If you
schedule it you will get it done.
If you want to actually shift your ideas from thoughts to
reality in the real world the first thing you need to do is start scheduling when
you will take action on what you have thought about.
The second consideration:
Why do people procrastinate? The answers are simple and there are two of them. Firstly, the task that they need to accomplish aren’t in line with their highest values. When people don’t have activities that are in line with what they value most they aren’t interested to do them. And secondly they need momentum. Often people procrastinate because they aren’t really sure what to do next. Build a schedule (interesting this is connected to the idea above) and start developing a pattern of habits so you know what needs to be done next. If you know what’s next you don’t have to procrastinate trying to figure it out.
Thirdly, seek out support and accountability partners. When you
have others helping you they can’t help you stay focused and even provide
support for achieving your successes.
My challenge to you today is to spend some time in planning your
life. Set aside a regular time to do this often. Keep a journal for it and be
sure to translate your plans from thinking to a schedule. Get to work in really
time to start making things happen and get some support.
Source By: Doug Vermeeren
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